Ehe’s Story: Paying the Bridal Price
Rarakaupana, Atapa, Atamotu, Kōa
2 November 2017
Being a father had its ups and downs, but it was rewarding. Oahoanu had grown up to be a man with strong values and a sense of who he was and what was expected from him. When I got sick, he took charge of the affairs of the nation. But now he has taken charge of the affairs of his home. Regardless of our misgivings, he chose this woman to be his wife, because of the love that they shared.
Three days ago, we sent the Pūtea clan a letter that our son was interested in taking one of their daughters, Aroha, as a wife. They promptly replied a day later that they were interested in meeting with us.Today we went to the homestead of Chief Kaipapa of the Pūtea clan. He was a distant relative of the lady in question, but as the head of the clan, cultural matters were often conducted at his homestead in a small village some distance from the city of Atapa.
Our arrival was warmly received. Several members of the royal family, including the Lady Noa, had come to negotiate the bridal price for the lady. We brought gifts, while the family welcomed us with a feast. We asked to see the girl. Numerous beautiful maidens came out. When we finally spotted the right lady, we were astounded by her beauty. We excitedly declared that this is the right one!
The elders of the Pūtea clan, led by her father asked us to leave the feasting party to discuss the matter thay we had come here for. Her father was a respectable gentleman who would not be intimidated by the former Emperor of Polynesia. I respected that in him. Although the negotiations lasted for some time, they agreed to allow their daughter to marry into our family and we agreed on the price that would be paid in exchange.
We went back home, proud of the work that we had done. Of the many things I had accomplished during my reign, marrying my son to this lady would be one of the greatest. We sent the gifts, food and livestock agreed upon as a fitting bridal price for her several days later. The family excitedly received the presents and sent us their thanks, by preparing a slaughtered goat for us to eat and take home.
My son was pleased. I am pleased and proud to be Oahoanu’s father.